Generally, I do not share email forwards. I have a rule of thumb that I simply will not forward email chains that are sent to me, but I guess this one caught me in a sentimental moment -- especially since all of my grandpas, my dad, my uncle, my father in law are all veterans.
As a solider in the Vietnam war, my father was a helicopter door-gunner. He experienced and saw horrors he will not speak of... E.V.E.R! He lost some of his best friends in the unpopular war and was in more than one helicopter that was shot out of the sky. On one particular mission, his copter came under heavy enemy gunfire from the ground. My dad's kneecap was shot and obliterated while he was a door-gunner in the helicopter. He had to have a replacement kneecap and suffered residual pain ever after.
Unfortunately, my father also suffered from severe complications of undiagnosed PTSD and depression from the aftermath of his war experiences. In December 1999, he tried to take his own life by shooting himself in the head with a shotgun. Blessedly and miraculously, my father survived his violent suicide attempt; however, the attempt was not without lasting consequences -- several weeks in a coma in a top-notch hospitals ICU, several months in rehabilitation and finally a devestating traumatic brain injury that basically ended his independence. He will never again live on his own or work as a mechanic or last a single day without many mandatory medications.
I am thankful each and every moment of my life that my father survived. I am also grateful, beyond words, for the freedoms we experience as Americans. Freedoms that most of us take for granted. Freedoms we feel entitled to, but that many millions of other people in other countries cannot even fathom experiencing...
And so, I share this email forward about a man buying lunch for some soliders on his business flight. Snopes has even heard of this story and has been unable to discount it as a lie (or as the absolute truth), but I believe in human kindness and therefore choose to believe it is absolutely, 100% true.
I put my carry-on in the luggage compartment and sat down in my assigned seat. It was going to be a long flight. 'I'm glad I have a good book to read. Perhaps I will get a short nap,' I thought.
Just before take-off, a line of soldiers came down the aisle and filled all the vacant seats, totally surrounding me. I decided to start a conversation. 'Where are you headed?' I asked the soldier seated nearest to me. 'Petawawa. We'll be there for two weeks for special training, and then we're being deployed to Afghanistan.’
After flying for about an hour, an announcement was made that sack lunches were available for five dollars. It would be several hours before we reached the east, and I quickly decided a lunch would help pass the time...
As I reached for my wallet, I overheard a soldier ask his buddy if he planned to buy lunch. 'No, that seems like a lot of money for just a sack lunch. Probably wouldn't be worth five bucks. I'll wait till we get to base.' His friend agreed.
I looked around at the other soldiers. None were buying lunch. I walked to the back of the plane and handed the flight attendant a fifty dollar bill. 'Take a lunch to all those soldiers.' She grabbed my arms and squeezed tightly. Her eyes wet with tears, she thanked me. 'My son was a soldier in Iraq; it's almost like you are doing it for him.'
Picking up ten sacks, she headed up the aisle to where the soldiers were seated. She stopped at my seat and asked, 'Which do you like best - beef or chicken?'
'Chicken,' I replied, wondering why she asked. She turned and went to the front of plane, returning a minute later with a dinner plate from first class. 'This is your thanks.'
After we finished eating, I went again to the back of the plane, heading for the rest room. A man stopped me. 'I saw what you did. I want to be part of it. Here, take this.' He handed me twenty-five dollars.
Soon after I returned to my seat, I saw the Flight Captain coming down the aisle, looking at the aisle numbers as he walked, I hoped he was not looking for me, but noticed he was looking at the numbers only on my side of the plane. When he got to my row he stopped, smiled, held out his hand and said, 'I want to shake your hand.' Quickly unfastening my seatbelt I stood and took the Captain's hand. With a booming voice he said, 'I was a soldier and I was a military pilot. Once, someone bought me a lunch. It was an act of kindness I never forgot.' I was embarrassed when applause was heard from all of the passengers.
Later I walked to the front of the plane so I could stretch my legs. A man who was seated about six rows in front of me reached out his hand, wanting to shake mine. He left another twenty-five dollars in my palm.
When we landed I gathered my belongings and started to deplane. Waiting just inside the airplane door was a man who stopped me, put something in my shirt pocket, turned, and walked away without saying a word. Another twenty-five dollars!
Upon entering the terminal, I saw the soldiers gathering for their trip to the base. I walked over to them and handed them seventy-five dollars. 'It will take you some time to reach the base. It will be about time for a sandwich. God
Ten young men left that flight feeling the love and respect of their fellow travelers.
As I walked briskly to my car, I whispered a prayer for their safe return. These soldiers were giving their all for our country. I could only give them a couple of meals. It seemed so little...
“A veteran is someone who, at one point in his life, wrote a blank check made payable to 'The United States of America ' for an amount of 'up to and including my life.'”